{pretty, happy, funny, real} Spring! Easter! Pinatas!

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Oh my, our world is full to overflowing with good things and hard things and in-between things right now.  How's that for specificity?  I imagine your world is much the same, and you get me. Right?

Here's quick photo diary of a few moments I'm rehearsing from the past couple of weeks.

A few photos to practice contentment this week

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He is risen (and He thought up tulips)!  Hallelujah! 

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I felt special responsibility as a godmother to capture the quintessential Texas spring photo of adorable children frolicking amidst the bluebonnets.  On the left, you see that one child humored me.  On the right, you'll see the other child was having none of it.

Godparents Club: Lady Bird Johnson Wildflower Center

I can't remember if I've mentioned on the blog that our daughter Kendra became a godmother when she was still a teenager.  She and the sweet Lucy Scout bonded when both of them were new to Austin and so Lucy's parents asked Kendra to be her godmother.  A couple years later, Brian and I were honored for the same request for Lucy's little brother Emmett.  We often ask ourselves how we got so lucky!

We took advantage of the week that Kendra was home for Spring Break to plan a morning adventure at the wonderful Lady Bird Johnson Wildflower Center.  I've decided that we should call ourselves the Godparents Club, and will henceforth name all future collaborations likewise.  We've also discovered that we need a 3:2 ratio now that Brian and I are so old and out of practice.  

If you live in (or visit) Austin, spring is THE time to visit the wildflower center.  Admission is reasonable, and Kendra got a student discount (kids 5 & under are free).  Before we even got inside the main area, we happened upon a nesting mama owl.  I'm not sure the binoculars actually helped L & E see the owl, but they sure had fun trying. The flowers are lovely, the walking trails just the right amount of work, the observation tower worth the climb, the cafe tasty and the children's garden imaginative and delightful.  

Of all that goodness, though, the swings are the absolute best.  You have to walk quite a ways to find them, but it's worth the trek (especially when you're little enough to let someone carry you back to the car when you're tuckered out).

Gosh, we're going to miss these kiddos.  (their parents too!)

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Second Annual Friends Easter Feast

Last year they came to our house, this year we went to theirs.  I am not exaggerating when I say they got robbed.  May I also recommend you all go out right now and find yourself a friend with culinary school training?  

Also, they make me laugh. A lot.  Laughter belongs near the top of the list of ways to practice resurrection.  We feasted (lamb! leek fritters! chili queso! corn pudd'n!), hunted for colored eggs (lottery ticket prizes!  winner gets a kitten!), and whacked a pinata (lollipops!).  

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My people 

It's beginning to dawn on all six of us that very soon we're going to be separated by thousands of miles.  As in, over shawarma at the Peace Bakery & Deli right after church on Sunday. As in, at any given moment one of the six of us had our head in our hands, bawling our eyes out.  I'm really grateful for the hospitality of the restaurant owners who gave us a quiet space to talk over all-you-can-eat pita and hummus.  (An aside: I'm thankful for the Resurrection sort of peace that makes a way for us to enjoy food prepared by our Middle Eastern neighbors on Easter Sunday. May that peace be known across the globe.)

I'm not going to lie.  This stage of parenting (or should I say, "family-ing"?) is really hard.  I have been humbled quite a bit in my assessment of myself as a mother.  Humbling is a good thing, though, and I've never been more grateful for the extreme privilege of sharing life with my husband and kids.  And I've never been more grateful for a Christ who bridges the gaps of our imperfect love, and saves us all.  

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Have YOU captured any contentment this week?  I'd love to hear about it!

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{pretty, happy, funny, real} in a roller coaster of a week!

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It's been a roller coaster of a week around here:  cooler, sunshiney days to imagine the possibility of fall, wedding preparations, pumpkin farm trips with adorable preschoolers, unexpected illness, and torrential rain requiring parish retreat plan interventions!  What. A. Week. With all the activity I lost track of blogging plans so here's a little catch up on capturing contentment.

A few photos to practice contentment this week

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Bridal Shower for Rebekah

We Murphy girls were privileged to be included in the wedding shower with Bekah's family and friends.  I'm still trying to get used to the idea of being a mother-in-law.  Honestly, it feels kind of weird.  When I just imagine it as welcoming Rebekah into our forever family, then it feels absolutely natural and perfect.  I guess it's all in how I think about it.  We're especially grateful to become friends with the Cummins family.  I mean, really.  As a first time mother-in-law, I couldn't be any more fortunate! 

The thrifty "monogrammed" gift bag held a special gift from my mother (now a "grandmother-in-law"?) for the engaged couple: a beautiful candy dish and platter that was given to her 45 years ago at her own wedding.  (Upon seeing the giftwrap, my daughter asked "What's the M for?"  I guess we're all getting used to the way this whole in-law thing works!)

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Godparents Go To the Pumpkin Farm 

Speaking of getting used to new relationships, remember how Brian and I became Godparents this past spring? Talk about good fortune!  Emmett has provided us already with many good stories and lots of happy moments.  Brian has taken especially well to the role of Godfather (in fact, he'd prefer Emmett to just call him The Godfather instead of Brian or Mr. Brian) The first photo above is not posed, and not unusual, in the friendship forming between these two guys.  Emmett's adorable older sister Lucy is actually Kendra's Goddaughter.  I guess that makes us God-grandparents??  (Trying to figure this out reminds me of this scene in You've Got Mail.) 

We'd had to postpone the pumpkin farm trip once, which turned out to be quite providential as the day we visited was relatively empty so the kids could just run from one thing to another.  Also, the temperature didn't get above 85 degrees, which was hot enough for all of us.  The good news is that Brian and I haven't lost all of our skills caring for little ones.  These two sweethearts couldn't have been more well-behaved, and we still took a 3 hour nap after dropping them back home with their parents.  May God bless all you parents of little ones with increased stamina! 

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Pumpkin Farm Outtakes

Lucy cracked me up with her photo opp savvy.  She wanted a photo with the pumpkin she'd painted.  At first I thought she didn't realize I was aiming the camera yet. Then I realized she knew exactly what was going on.  She was also enamored with all the painted cutouts, but unfortunately -- even with a hay bale to stand on -- wasn't quite tall enough for the full effect.  This did not deter one bit.  Her brother, on the other hand, just pulled himself up with his arms and feet to get centered perfectly.  Oh my, they cracked us up. 

I snapped the shot of Brian and the kids walking at the pace we'd kept all morning.  I was not always quite this far behind the pack. Also, we were not the only ones tired out from the excursion. 

Wedding Prep Outtakes

This was Invitation Addressing weekend.  We did our best to work with good humour, as you can tell by the cheerful signage. The designer who created the wedding invitations recommended we do our work with a bit of wine.  We followed her instructions to the letter.  (which may or may not have actually helped, but what happens in the Wedding Zone, stays in the Wedding Zone.)

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Sick Days

Natalie's not been feeling well for quite awhile.  This week we started some doctor appointments to see if we can help her get back to her energetic, vibrant, fun-loving self.  We feel that sometimes an afternoon in Mom's bed, watching The Artistocats is an important part of her health regimen. If you think of it, pray for her? (to be honest, I'll accept prayer for all of my kids!)

Have YOU captured any contentment this week? 

 I'd love to hear about it!

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7 quick family update takes

I'm not sure I've mentioned yet that I've moved back to working part time after a season of full time.  If you're keeping track of that sort of thing here, I wanted you to know.  You might also have inferred it from the drastic uptick in published posts.  You should also know that I am so grateful for this change I can barely stand it.  

Here's 6 quick updates on what the rest of the family is up to and 1 quick take of other good things I've been reading online lately:

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Our son Alexander asked the beautiful Rebekah to marry him!  I'm working on a whole post about this to share soon.  In the meantime, we are celebrating. 

We can't believe how lucky we are (in the holiest sense of that word) to not only be parents to our 4 kids, but now get to welcome those they love into our family too. Mazel Tov and L'chaim!

Alex is on his way back to Austin after a semester in Washington D.C.  where he had some amazing experiences working with and for the sort of people that require me to not share any of those things with you on this blog.  Clearly, they have no idea what it's like to be a Mother.  

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Andrew's competing for Funniest Person in Austin again. This is his third year of sticking his neck out with epic courage to see what judges from Comedy Central, the Jimmy Fallon show and the rest of Austin's comic community.  He's made it to semi-finals and we'll watch him on Monday night to see if he gets voted to finals.  GAH - I'm so nervous for him!  

Here's a post Andrew wrote way back in his rookie year:  8 lessons from 9 months doing stand up in Austin, TX

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A week ago today I was visiting Kendra at her dorm in Denton.  I wrote about the visit for this weeks p,h,f,r post.  It was one of those posts that started out as an excuse to show you all photos of my beautiful daughter and then turned into a reflection on parenting.  I gotta admit, I was a little bit nervous Kendra would not approve.  Instead, I got this text:

Phew!  

Kendra served as the Philanthropy Chair for Simga Phi Lambda this semester. One of their projects was to raise money for World Vision through 30-Hour Famine.  Kendra explains both the project and the Puppy-Kissing Booth (!) fundraiser in this video.

Can't believe she's finishing her freshman year this week and will be headed home for the summer next weekend!  She's got a nanny job in Austin, a trip to her beloved Potter's House in Guatemala and bridesmaiding at a couple weddings this summer.  Should be a good one!  

Any tips from you Moms of older people on living together under one roof in peace and harmony again?  Both Alex and Kendra will be living with us this summer.  Natalie won't be here (which is good because we'll need her bedroom) because...

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Natalie's off to New York!  She's taken a job as camp lifeguard at Mapleridge Ranch (formerly, El Rancho de Paz) and is counting down the days.

The first thing you see upon entering Natalie's room -- a camp poster.

In the meantime she is finishing her Junior year of high school.  My brain can not quite compute this fact.  While I was walking with a friend this week she actually reminded me of the fact "In a few weeks, Natalie will officially be a senior?!?"  I looked at kind of stunned.  "YES, you're RIGHT!"  And then my brain shut down.  

One of the recent articles Natalie wrote for 

The Shield (McCallum's award-winning school paper).  

Natalie is an assistant editor.

Assistant Editor mug shot

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Brian is in one of the busiest seasons of his life right now, closely rivalling the days he was working, going to school full time, coaching basketball and we were having babies.  Recently, as part of a normal, healthy conversation with some marriage mentors, we were encouraged to find ways to comfort each other during the stress of this season (rather than just politely acknowledge each other's busy, stressed existence).  This morning, as he told me about the work he needs to get done between now and Monday night (including his last seminary final ever!) I told him I'd probably divorce him if he ever got this busy again.

Shortly thereafter, it occurred to me that probably wasn't the sort of comfort our counsellors had in mind.

Don't take me seriously.  We're married for better or worse until death parts us.  We both know when I say "I'll divorce you" it's a sort of code word for us that things will be very, very unhappy and worthy of serious boundary setting and some tense conversations between us.  It's not a joke, but it's not literal either.  Just thought you should know.

In the meantime, I AM so very proud of this man.  He turned in his last paper yesterday, takes his last final on Monday.  I've been saving a bottle of champagne in the fridge for us to celebrate.  Or we'll just toast him at Andrew's FPIA show on Monday night.  

Either way, we're really looking forward to Tuesday. (here's a picture of us holding a wedding photo to prove that we do, in fact, still love each other.)

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And it's a good thing we're still together because, in addition for our four children and the beautiful people they love, Brian and I are new Godparents! 

Until a few years ago, I wouldn't have considered this a possibility for us as Protestants.  I love learning the rich tradition of welcoming a little one into the arms of the Church and committing ourselves to his instruction and care as one loving tribe.  Now, Brian and I are asked to walk with Emmett in particular -- as godparents.  I really am not sure what this will look like over the years but gave my loving vow:  

Celebrant  

Will you be responsible for seeing that the child you present is brought up in the Christian faith and life? 

Parents and Godparents 

I will, with God's help. 

Celebrant  

Will you by your prayers and witness help this child to grow into the full stature of Christ? 

Parents and Godparents 

I will, with God's help. 

Emmett's Daddy is a priest, thus the man with the robe holding him as he is presented.

Father Cliff marks the sign of the cross on Emmett's baptized forehead. 

We have been lucky enough to know Emmett from the very, very beginning.  Here's a little collage from the day he was born and his older sister Lucy (Kendra's goddaughter) played at our house.  Kendra was crocheting a blanket, Brian and Lucy bonding over books and toys and we watched Wall-E 59 times (per Lucy's request) before getting to see the little man in person.  What joy to be part of this beautiful family's tribe!

Brian and I aren't really sure really how to be a godparents.  I feel that I should definitely be in ownership of a magic wand and Brian feels that the boy should forever refer to him as "The Godfather".  (we seriously almost gave Emmett a canoli at his party)  Clearly, our understanding has been more shaped by pop culture than church history so the first order of business is to get studying.  And also, Pray for this sweet child to grow up to embrace Jesus, His Church and this needy world.

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While I'm catching up here on my quick takes post (maybe I'll get to Easter Sunday next week?!?)  please join me in my weekly Eastertide blog series:  Easter Daybook (on Sundays) and Practice Resurrection Photo Stories on Mondays.  Join me as I keep looking for the Risen Christ every place I find myself. I'd love to hear how you are practicing resurrection during Eastertide.  

Check out the #practiceresurrection2015 series and send us a photo story or two in these coming weeks, won't you?

Here's some other good words online this week:

• Sometimes, my heart cannot hold it all by Katie Fox:  A beautiful reminder of the way our kids need us to see them. "I see you, my sweet girl. I see every bit of progress that you make, every bit of ground that you lose. I see your struggle and your frustration, and I see your joyful spirit that captivates everyone you meet. I see when you get tired, and when you persevere. I see all of you, and there is so much love, it bursts forth from your smile and your laughter and comes and fills me up inside. And sometimes, it overflows there, too, and my love is a river bounding over its banks after a hard rain. Sometimes, my heart cannot hold it all."

• We are back in business at Christ Church Garden:  We're so excited to not only have a permanent home for our church, but also a permanent home for the garden!  Matt Evans, our gardener and humorist extraordinaire tells the story like only he can.  "And he [a new neighbor] shook his head in obvious frustration at our ignorance and walked off before we could tell him why we want the homeless, the hungry, the hipsters to have free tomatoes as a gift from us. OK, maybe not the hipsters. We love them too, but they can grow their own tomatoes."

• Jimmy Fallon's Favorite #MomQuotes Tweet Prove That Mom Is The Greatest:   Have you seen this?  I promise you my kids could write so many that their #MomQuotes tweets would go viral or become trending or whatever it is the kids say these days. (see what I did right there?)

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Hoping for a good and content weekend for us all, friends.

Peace....

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